Tokutsumi — the Japanese practice of quiet kindness.

Record small acts of kindness as Toku, and watch your inner landscape slowly change.

A calm habit app inspired by the Japanese idea of building virtue.

Free on iOS & Android

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Technology keeps advancing. But are we evolving within?

AI, smartphones, and the internet have made our lives more convenient than ever.

But no matter how convenient life becomes, something is missing if the heart is left behind.

Talk to Me is a small habit for the age of technology: a way to build virtue, care for your inner life, and return to what matters.

Tokutsumi is the practice of building virtue.

In Japan, there is an old idea of "building virtue": doing good for others without expecting anything in return.

It does not have to be grand.

  • Giving up your seat
  • Saying thank you
  • Helping your family
  • Listening with care
  • Lending a hand in your community

In Talk to Me, you record these everyday acts of kindness as Toku.

Record today's kindness as Toku.

Each small act of kindness can be recorded as Toku.

It is a quiet Tokutsumi habit: for remembering how you acted, and gently returning to your inner light.

What you can do

  • Record today's kindness
  • Look back on your daily Tokutsumi
  • See your Toku reflected in colors
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The same home screen — the colors of your Toku slowly reshape your landscape.

Try adding one Toku.

In the app, you add each small act of kindness as Toku — with a gentle tap on a ball.

Recall one kind thing you did today, and give it a try.

A new color just joined your landscape. In the app, this quiet accumulation becomes your everyday scenery.

Even kindness that no one sees holds value.

What changes as your kindness adds up.

Good things start finding their way back

Kindness given without expecting anything back has a way of returning when you least expect it. There is a reason every culture has its own version of "what goes around comes around."

Your days begin to flow differently

The more often you choose kindness, the more your words and actions shift — and the current of your everyday life quietly begins to change.

Your relationships grow warmer

Your kindness is felt more than you know. Gratitude and trust slowly build around you — at home, at work, in your community.

Small joys become easier to notice

With a little more room in your heart, you start to see what you truly want — and the small happiness already in front of you. That is how wellbeing quietly grows.

None of this comes with a guarantee — and we would never promise it. But if people have practiced building virtue for centuries, it is because so many have felt these changes for themselves.

From quiet kindness to shared Movements.

Talk to Me has always been a quiet place to face your inner self. With the new Movements feature, your kindness can now invite others in.

Quietly organize a small good deed — a neighborhood cleanup, for example — or join one anonymously. Your Tokutsumi becomes something you do together.

Small acts of kindness, gathered together, quietly change a street, a town, the world. And it can start with you.

Movements are completely free. No rankings, no likes — just kindness in action.

Your small kindness can become a ripple that reaches far beyond you.

Each act of kindness gently shapes your words, your actions, and the way you show up in the world.

And strangely enough, the more Toku you build, the more naturally the next act of kindness arises.

That change reaches the people around you.

And from there, it can keep spreading.

What you will not find here.

  • Rankings
  • Followers
  • Like counts
  • Comparison with others

Talk to Me has no competition, and no chasing approval.

This is a quiet space for you and your inner self alone.

From our users

Simple but lovely, and it turns my kindness into something I can see. Truly one of my favorite apps.

App Store review (Japan), translated

The longer I keep going, the more my self-esteem grows. It makes me want to do more good things — addictive, in the best sense.

Message from a user (Japan), translated

Spread the ripples of Tokutsumi, together.

Inner evolution, alongside outer progress.

Talk to Me aims for more than a convenient app: through Tokutsumi, each person centers their inner self and spreads the ripples of kindness.

If that resonates with you, we would be glad to have you with us — spreading these ripples together.

Frequently asked questions

Is it free?

Yes. The core experience — recording Toku, looking back on your days, and seeing your Toku reflected in colors — is entirely free.

What is the subscription for?

The Talk to Me Partner plans unlock the personal AI voice, a weekly letter, and monthly self-analysis. The more it knows you, the more its words grow. The core features stay free without a plan.

Are any effects guaranteed?

No. We cannot promise better luck or a transformed life. What Talk to Me offers is a habit of quietly reflecting on your daily kindness — what that accumulation comes to mean is up to you.

Is it a social network?

No. There are no rankings, followers, or likes. Your records are not for showing anyone — they are for you.

Building virtue brings a deeper kind of happiness.

Building virtue is not about being recognized by anyone.

It is about quietly feeling at peace with what you do, and repeating kindness without seeking return.

As those days accumulate, so does a quiet trust in yourself.

That accumulation deepens the happiness within you.

Begin your Tokutsumi practice today.

Build virtue. Pay it forward.

Record your small acts of kindness, and let your inner light ripple outward.

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